Melissa gets to go home tomorrow (Tue Jan 22)! Wahoo! It has been twelve days now since her aorta split and our
lives were put on high alert. And
now we’re about to start a new chapter:
home re-hab. I think our
house is going to look pretty good after two weeks away.
But this moment is wonderful enough to cherish. Melissa is back to her full exuberant
life-loving self. She will be
months getting her strength and endurance back, but now is a very good
now. All sutures were removed
today. She matter-of-factly
displays the still-healing chest incision. Just about all of the life-monitoring apparatus was
removed today. She has needle
tracks up and down her arms. I
didn’t even know she had a plastic tube encasing a wire directly to her heart
(in case she needed an emergency jump-start). She said it felt weird being removed because the wire was
stuck directly to her heart. Just
a few tugs by the Doc and the wire and tube came out. Yikes. The only
thing I want tugging at my heart is the reminder to love people! And I DO mean that metaphorically.
Melissa moved out of the ICU to a normal room yesterday. There’s a big difference between a unit
dedicated to keeping you alive versus one that prioritizes keeping you
comfortable. She actually slept
last night. No alarms and bells
dinging so often it sounds like a casino.
I exaggerate not. No loud
intercom announcements of codes blue and red. And no more people injecting or sucking fluids out of my
daughter every hour!!
We moved our home base from Matt and Sarah Moore’s house
this morning. Their warm smiles
and delightful kids did Karin and me a world of good. Yesterday especially, Karin got weepy with each additional
expression of kindness to us. I
understand those feelings. We need
and thrive on that love but aren’t necessarily the best at knowing how to
process it.
I want to be with my church Sunday. I want to hug the people who have
labored in prayer for my daughter.
I want to praise and share about the kind of God who deals so kindly
with His kids. And if I hug you a
little too hard, it’s for the folks around the U.S. and the world that I can’t
get to. May your prayers come back
to bless you.
One more thing.
Thanks, Tim. Thanks for
being a calming and healing presence for so many days here in L.A. I think of your teen years and am now
glad I didn’t terminate you when it seemed reasonable. You and Julie are always a breath of
God for us. I love you.
Dad